The Spirit Earns the Right to Speak

THE GUY NOBODY

EATS LUNCH WITH

There is a version of Derek at almost every church in America. He’s the guy who got serious about his faith, really serious, and now everyone in his orbit knows it. He’s got the vocabulary, the conviction, the small group. By every external measure his tree is full and green.

And almost nobody wants to be around him.

Not because he’s a bad person. Because somewhere between his conversion and today, his faith quietly shifted from something people wanted to taste to something people wanted to avoid. He didn’t plan it. He doesn’t even know it happened. He just drifted, one well-intentioned correction at a time, into being the guy with all the leaves and none of the fruit.

This is the accidental Pharisee. And if we’re honest, most of us have been him at some point. Maybe we still are.

“Seeing in the distance a fig tree in leaf, he went to find out if it had any fruit. When he reached it, he found nothing but leaves.”

Mark 11:13 · ESV

THE BIBLICAL BACKDROP

Jesus Wasn’t Just Hungry

When Jesus walked up to that fig tree outside Jerusalem and found nothing but leaves, the moment seems odd at first glance. He curses a tree for having no fruit, even though Mark tells us it wasn’t fig season. Why would he do that?

Because he wasn’t just hungry. He was making a prophetic statement. Throughout the Old Testament, the fig tree was used repeatedly as a symbol for Israel, God’s covenant people, called to bear the fruit of his character before a watching world. The prophet Jeremiah wrote that God searched for figs among his people and found none. Micah lamented the same. Isaiah used the withered vine and empty vineyard to describe a people who had the form of faithfulness without the substance. Jesus, walking into Jerusalem for the final week of his earthly ministry, was completing that same picture in real time.

What makes this passage so rich is how Mark structured it. Scholars call it a Markan sandwich: the fig tree encounter, then the cleansing of the temple, then back to the withered fig tree the next morning. That structure is not accidental. Mark is telling us that the fig tree and the temple are the same story. Both looked alive and productive on the outside. Both were hollow at the center. The temple had become a marketplace. The religious establishment had become a barrier. The people who needed access to God most couldn’t get past the people who were supposed to be pointing them toward him.

Jesus looked at all of it and said what he had been saying to Israel through the prophets for centuries: I came looking for fruit and found leaves.

“For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.”

Matthew 12:34b-35 · NIV

Jesus said this to the Pharisees right after they accused him of casting out demons by the power of Satan. Notice what he does: he doesn’t just argue with their theology. He goes after their hearts. The words coming out of them were the fruit of something rotten inside them. They had spent their entire lives in the scriptures, in the synagogues, in careful religious practice, and it had produced men whose immediate response to a miracle was to slander the person performing it.

The leaves were impressive. The fruit was rotten. And Jesus is saying: what comes out of your mouth in an unguarded moment tells you everything about what your heart is actually full of. Not what you know. Not what you believe doctrinally. What you’re actually full of.

“The Holy Spirit is always talking to you about you. The enemy is always talking to you about everybody else.”

Pastor Jeff Little · Fruitful Series

UNDERSTANDING THE TRAP

How Good Men End Up Here

Here is something important to understand about the Pharisees: in Jesus’ day, they were not the obvious villains. They were the heroes. They had memorized entire books of the Torah. They tithed to the exact percentage. They fasted twice a week when the law only required once a year. They were, by every measure their culture had, the most serious and committed men of faith in the room. People wanted their kids to grow up to be Pharisees.

So when Jesus showed up, eating with tax collectors, sitting at dinner with known sinners, allowing a woman of ill repute to wash his feet in public, the Pharisees were genuinely offended. Not because they were monsters. Because their entire theological framework taught them that holiness required separation from the unclean. They had built their identity around that separation. And here was someone claiming to be the Messiah who seemed to have no concern for it at all.

The indictment Jesus brought against them was not that they cared about righteousness. It was that their righteousness had become a wall instead of a welcome. He told them plainly in Matthew 23:13, “You shut the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.” The very people who were supposed to be guides had become gatekeepers. The tree that was supposed to feed people had become a wall they couldn’t get past.

Nobody becomes an accidental Pharisee on purpose. It happens the same way for us as it did for them. You get saved. You get serious. You start reading, learning, getting convicted. All of that is genuinely good. But without the continual work of the Holy Spirit pointed inward, growth in knowledge can quietly become grounds for judgment. We start measuring others by the mile markers we’ve already passed. We forget what it felt like to be where they are. And one day we look up and the people who needed us most have stopped coming around.

“Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things.”

Romans 2:1 · ESV

Paul wrote this to believers in Rome who were proud of their moral standing. His point was not to shame them but to remind them that the standard they used to evaluate everyone else was the same standard they were quietly failing themselves. Paul knew this trap intimately because he had lived it. Before his conversion he was, in his own words, “a Pharisee of Pharisees, blameless under the law.” He had used that credential to persecute and kill the very people Jesus died for. His transformation on the road to Damascus was not a theological adjustment. It was the moment the fig tree got inspected and found hollow, and God, in his mercy, chose to restore it rather than curse it.

The man who was the most dangerous enemy of the early church became its most fruitful witness. Not because he learned more scripture. He already knew more scripture than almost anyone alive. Because he finally let the scripture do its work on him instead of using it as a weapon on others.

THIS WEEK’S STORY

Derek and Jared

Derek, 42, has been a Christian for fifteen years. Married, kids, active in his church. He tithes, leads a small group, keeps a worn Bible on his desk at work. His faith is genuine. His coworkers have known it for years. What Derek doesn’t know is that three of them have started closing their doors when they hear him coming down the hall.

THE FLESH RESPONSE

Jared, a coworker Derek has known for three years, opens up during lunch. His marriage is struggling and he doesn’t know where to start. He just needed someone to sit across from him and be present.

Derek feels the familiar pull, the one that says this is your moment. So he launches in. What the Bible says about a man’s responsibility to lead his wife. What Ephesians 5 says about sacrificial love. What Proverbs says about the kind of woman who builds a house versus tears it down. Every point is technically true. And every point lands on Jared like a gavel.

Jared nods twice. Goes quiet. Looks at his phone. Derek finishes his soup feeling like he did something good. He doesn’t notice the door closing.

THE OUTCOME

Jared stops eating in the break room. The room now feels like a courtroom. Derek walks away convinced he was bold for the gospel. What actually happened is that Jared had been quietly thinking about coming to church for two weeks. He’s not anymore. That door is closed, and Derek will never know it was open.

Fruit on Derek’s tree: Isolation · A Reputation for Judgment · A Gospel Nobody Asked to Hear

THE SPIRIT RESPONSE

Same lunch. Same Jared. Same opening. Derek feels the same pull, the verse already forming in his head. But there’s something quieter underneath it. A nudge that whispers: this isn’t about being right, it’s about being present.

He puts his fork down. Makes eye contact. Asks one question: “How long has it been like this, man?” And then he listens. No catalogue of problems, no next point loading. Just present. When Jared finishes, Derek doesn’t reach for a verse. He says, “That sounds exhausting. I’m sorry. Can I check in on you tomorrow?”

When he gets back to his desk, Derek prays for Jared instead of reviewing everything he should have said. That’s the Spirit at work; not in the words he used, but in the ones he didn’t.

THE OUTCOME

Two weeks later, Jared knocks on Derek’s door and asks if they can grab coffee outside of work. He’s not ready for church, but he wants to know what Derek has that seems different from every version of religion he’s run from his whole life. That question is the fruit. Derek didn’t manufacture it. He just stopped being a wall and started being a door.

Fruit on Derek’s tree: Genuine Influence · An Open Door · Love That Cost Him Something

THE DEEPER PRINCIPLE

You Cannot Correct Someone Into the Kingdom

The truth of God’s Word is real, absolute, and unchanging. We don’t get to soften it or set it aside. And at the same time, the way we carry that truth; the posture, the timing, the relationship behind it, matters enormously to whether it actually produces anything in another person’s life.

Jesus is called the Word made flesh in John 1. He didn’t just carry truth. He was Truth, walking into rooms where broken people were, sitting down at their tables, asking about their lives. He healed people before he corrected them. He fed people before he taught them. He showed up at a well in the heat of the day to have a conversation with a woman the rest of the world had written off. And by the end of that conversation, she had become the first evangelist of her town, not because he condemned her, but because he saw her completely and stayed anyway.

That is the model. Not soft. Not without conviction. But deeply, genuinely present with people before speaking to their need for change. If we skip that step, we’re not following Jesus. We’re following a version of the Pharisees who thought truth delivered loudly enough was the same as truth delivered lovingly.

CONNECTING TO THE FRUIT: LOVE

In this series we’ve been defining love not as a feeling but as a sacrifice; something you give of yourself so that another person can grow. Paul, writing to the church in Corinth, said this: “If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.” (1 Corinthians 13:1-2)

That is not a small claim. Paul is saying that you can have accurate theology, genuine spiritual gifts, and mountain-moving faith, and still produce nothing of lasting value if love is not the engine behind it all. Derek the first time had good theology. He had the right verses. He had none of the love that would have made any of it land. Derek the second time gave up his agenda, his moment, his need to be the answer in the room, and in doing so, he gave Jared something that actually fed him.

You don’t get to measure your own fruit. The people around you are the ones tasting it. They are not grading you on your theology. They are grading you on what it felt like to be around you today. And that grade tells you more about the true condition of your heart than any Bible study attendance record ever could.

BEFORE YOU CLOSE THIS TAB

Coaching Questions for Today

01 / THE MIRROR TEST

Think about the last time someone in your circle came to you with a real problem. What was your first internal move; fix, correct, or just be present? What does that tell you about what your heart is actually full of right now?

02 / THE REPUTATION CHECK

If the people who know you best were asked to describe your faith in one or two words, what would they say? Would those words sound like fruit or like leaves? When did you last ask someone who would actually tell you the truth?

03 / THE PRICE CHECK

Is there someone in your life right now who needs you to show up before you speak up? Someone who hasn’t asked for your spiritual input but who clearly needs your presence? What would it cost you to sit with them this week with no agenda, no verse ready to go, just you?

04 / THE HOLY SPIRIT CHECK

When you spend time in your Bible or in prayer, who does God tend to bring up; you, or other people? If most of your spiritual energy flows outward in judgment, bring that honestly to God today. Ask him one question and mean it: what are you still working on in me?

CLOSE WITH THIS

Lord, I want to be more like the Derek who put his fork down than the Derek who loaded his next point. I confess that I have used truth as a hammer more times than I want to admit; with people at work, with my kids, with my wife, with people who just needed me to show up and stay. Forgive me. Reset the posture of my heart today. Let the Spirit talk to me about me. Let what comes out of me actually taste like something worth having. Make me a tree with real fruit, not just leaves. Amen.

The flesh wants to be right. The Spirit earns the right to speak.

Stay in step with the Spirit.

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